No. The two texts I received were "tentatively scheduled"
I got both types. For my first VIN, it asked for confirmation with a specific time. The later ones after I got reassigned a new VIN say "tentatively scheduled" for a date pending receipt of vehicle, but no time (it did had a time set on the online account however). I missed the 12/30 appointment because of that and I asked my rep to reschedule for today. About an hour before the pick up time, I got a text that told me which spot it was at (happened both days).
I just picked it up in the afternoon at Colma. Was largely uneventful. The app showed the controls very early on, but you can't unlock the car until you accept delivery. So I just looked through all the exterior and peeked into the interior to make sure no serious issues before accepting delivery. Only had a very light scratch on hood that looks like it'll buff out, and the bottom edge of the front bumper has some scratches probably from them parking (not visible unless you look from under car, a lot of cars eventually will scratch there from the wheel stops at parking lots). Panel gaps on my car were fairly even and I didn't have the issues that some youtube videos showed for the 2021s (like the large uneven passenger door front gap, and the driver side trunk sticking up). Only the driver side front wheel cover, and the passenger side right reflector cover (the one that looks the same as the charge port cover) was loose, but they were easy to pop in back in.
Rep at store told me to send service request in app with attached pictures of the scratches and the app had me scheduled for Mobile service (although he said they will probably review first and might give me a call to bring car in if they can't fix it with Mobile).
My app shows the 1000 supercharger miles (expires in 6/30/2021) from a referral code I used, but no FSD features or the 1 year free supercharging. I asked at the store and they said the 1 year supercharger will activate 1/4/2021, but they were not sure about the FSD. Will probably follow up with my original rep tomorrow in a text just to be sure.