Found it last night, at Exit 60 (first exit east of the tunnel), a few hundred yards north of the Parkway. Nice location, plenty of superchargers. Decent mix of food options. Wood 'n Tap, pizza, Chipotle, ice cream, Chinese food, sushi. Panera. Nice addition to the Merritt Parkway run. Our other favorite is the Rye Ridge Deli on High Ridge road (exit 34, I think)