Oh yeah, I totally agree with all of that. When I got my car I actually did not have ANY at home charging for the first 7 weeks that I owned it. Long story...but I was moving so I didn't want to add it to the old place... So for the first few months I lived off the Ann Arbor and Maumee Superchargers. Without those driving my brand new car would have been almost impossible.
I planned my week around going out to the Meijer in A2 so that I could charge up while shopping or while having dinner at one of the nearby restaurants. That experience certainly gave me some great experience on how to drive an EV like a gas car (meaning not charging it up every night). I also learned about the effects of vampire drain when it's super cold outside (February and March in Michigan).
I will say this though...driving 35 miles to charge your car does get old really fast. I was very thankful when I finally got my Tesla Wall connector installed in my garage. It wasn't till then that I truly got the full taste of one of the major benefits of owning an electric car...that being the ability to charge up at home. That's a game changer.
You make an important point that people often miss. Many non-EV owners do not understand that it is a different way to operate a vehicle. It requires a mind shift but it is also easy to adapt. Charge while you are working, sleeping or shopping for groceries (hats off to Meijer corp!) ...or even having lunch/dinner (e.g., East Lake Lansing road HPWC) The HPWC and superchargers offer us this flexibility. Even with free supercharging I plan my trips to avoid spending time at Superchargers unless there is a also a convenient reason to shop for groceries, dine, etc. Most of my charging is done at work and home. Having so many SC's in Michigan will give users comfort in knowing that we have options if travel conditions change and we need to top up the battery. So, all of us benefit from these SC additions even if we don't use them much. Tesla has created a pretty amazing fast charging network!