Your electrician is very wrong. Whatever size SINGLE PHASE power you have coming into your house, you are entitled to use it all. In Adelaide we can have a 64A single phase or 3 phase circuit. Furthermore, whatever size 3 phase you have coming into your house you are entitled to use it all, however your electrician is required to try and balance the phases. For example, I have 64A 3 phase, so I have a 40A HPWC on one phase, a 40A HPWC on the 2nd phase (two tesla), and our kitchen appliances on the 3rd phase.
If you only have 32A single phase going into your house, you will likely blow your service fuse (or breaker) if you use all 32A. To set at 32A you really need a 40A circuit. Tesla recommending 16A makes sense, as it leaves space for other power demands.
As far as I'm aware there is only one single phase HPWC, but you set the amperage for the circuit on it's internal dip switches. This prevents it over-drawing your circuit.