Those are two totally different cars and I know because my car prior to my current model 3 was the Accord Hybrid. It's a great car but I would try to go EV is you can. Get the LR, even if it means buying used. I can also speak to the current Honda driver assist features because my wife has a brand new CR-V Touring hybrid and I'm assuming it's the same system as what's on the Accord. It's pretty nice but it doesn't hold a candle to Tesla Autopilot. The LKAS (Lane Keeping Assist System) won't change lanes for you, which I assume you drive in fairly heavy traffic is a must. It is also extremely finicky about keeping your hands on the wheel at all times and will shut down in just around 10 seconds if you don't. Their version of (automatic cruise control) ACC is on par with Tesla's TACC though.
I had a 2018 Accord hybrid. It was the first vehicle I'd owned with TACC & LCAS. Averaged 47mpg on summer fuel. I loved that car. the comfort, tech & economy reset the bar for what I would own. It wasn't a "fun" car to drive but as a transportation appliance it's hard to beat.
I traded it for a model 3 awd. It changed everything. The performance is stunning - 1.5 years later it's still as much fun to get into as it was the first day. Autopilot has it's quirks as does many of the cars features but the benefits far outweigh the negatives. By my rough math on actuals fuel cost was only a slight advantage to the tesla if only supercharging but about 60% less for home charging.
I thought the minimalist interior & loss of the honda hud would bother me. Within a day it seemed normal & now I can't imagine going back.