The other piece of advice in your situation that I regret not doing: Since you like trading stocks and seem to be comfortable with it - get a Roth IRA for yourself and contribute the whole allowable yearly amount to it. You're going to hit that silly low contribution limit within 3 to 5 years after college (if that), and then you can't contribute further to it without a lot of pain. But at least you'll be able to trade using that initial amount over the years until you retire.
I think that's because $125k is on the low side for a P85. My financing was also more than 2x my previous highest loan amount, and it was never even brought up. My income is far over $125k though.
Also take a look at this thread:
http://www.teslamotorsclub.com/showthread.php/7238-Model-S-Buyers-What-s-Your-Income
Most Model S owners (and that poll include 60's and at that time 40's) make $140k+, which 46% making $200k+. So I don't think it was predominantly a loan history issue.
As for the rationality of your purchase - my first car (straight out of college) was a BMW 850i. (Lovely, but hugely impractical car.). Payments were like 50% of my income initially - but I don't regret it at all. I lost over 90% of my holdings at the time the market crashed in 2000. If I saved up more money instead of buying the car, I would have just lost more. But nobody can ever take away the experiences I had with that car.
And worse, a couple of months before the market crash in 2000 I was in the process of buying a boat (60-foot Sunseeker) for $650k - and I almost did, since hey, I was young, single, and had the money. But that would have been pretty much all I had at the time. So I backed out at the last minute, because boats are like the worst investments in the world, right? Turns out no...
So there. Enjoy your car - I'm sure you will. Nobody knows what the future is going to bring. But get that Roth IRA.
Thanks for the advice Sorry to hear about your troubles
I plan on keeping this car for at least 5 years and only trading it out when I can afford to buy a Ferrari for cash.
I agree $125K is low for a P85, but thats not our family income, its only my dad's (I think the poll you are referring to is family income).
Regardless of what you make spending $100K+ on an asset that will loose 50% of its value in 3 years is not about being rational so.