But Tesla specifies what you should expect in their "Mechanical and Cosmetic Standards" section:
Cosmetic Condition
Cosmetic wear and tear is typical of a used car and does not affect the functionality of the car. Your car will exhibit cosmetic wear and tear that includes, but is not limited to, the following:
Painted Panels
- Scratches up to 1"
- Dents up to 0.5"
- Rock chips
Unpainted Panels or Exterior Trim
Glass
- Rock chips up to 1"
- Scratches
Wheels
Interior
- Signs of usage on upholstery and interior panels such as markings, discoloration, small tears or stains up to 1"
- Signs of usage on entry and exit points
Rubber Seals and Trim
- Damage of rubber not affecting function
Looking at the OP's pictures, it looks like some of the panels have scratches in excess of the limits Tesla specifies in their standards. That's the real problem here - if Tesla fails deliver on their standards, and you call them out on it, they instead charge you $1000 and tell you to roll the dice again (with another $1000).
I think the SCs / sales departments have the screws turned down so tight on them at this point that they don't have any financial leeway / resources to cut the prospective buyer a discount for the err in the listing or to spend labor hours refurbishing, even if that just means an hour or two addressing some cosmetic issues.