Unfortunately, it's Tesla time, plus add in Hawaiian time.... it ends up being an OMG long time... but after submitting the request my set was here in about 30 days...
I just realized the dates are order dates and not delivery dates posted on the site... so my earlier post is wrong about the timeframe... i am not sure how long after delivery I got the email.... of him taking delivery...
After no response from my referral program contact, I emailed the person who I reached out to in January. She apologized for me not getting the email and sent my order in directly to the wheel fulfillment department. Still not convinced that i'll ever get them though.