For anyone else thinking of canceling and re-ordering...
There is a loose rumor that if you ordered before the 7-day return policy went away that they will still honor the policy since it was in place at the time of order.
Just something to keep in mind, I'm sure this rumor will be proved or disproved at some point.
EDIT: Also, if someone has not contacted you from the local sales center (store, dealership, whatever you want to call it) you might want to reach out to them. I got a text about 10 minutes after placing my order from my sales associate (or whatever you want to call them). If your not happy about your order taking so long, reach out to this person and make sure nothing is hung up in the system. There was one sales associate that was frequenting the Model Y FaceBook group that unfortunately got let go but it seemed like orders would easily get tripped up or hung up in the system. He was going in and fixing whatever the issue was. Your local person should be able to look into this as well. For example, we rejected the car they offered us on 01 August, long story short not taking a brand new car that needs to be repainted, we went back into the queue. After a few weeks, still no VIN, deliveries still seemed to be going kinda bad. We discussed it and decided to wait until after the first of the year. So I called our sales associate and he was able to put our order on hold until 01/01/2021. We wont VIN match until after that date.