Huh? Unless my math is wrong - and it could be - an average EV under average circumstances needs a bit more than 300W to go a mile, so thats roughly 3 miles per 1 kW. Make the math easy; $0.03/kw x 1kW/3 miles = $0.01/mile. Meanwhile, an average car getting 25 miles/gal at $2.50/gal costs 1gal/25 miles x $2.50/ga = $0.10/mile THATS 10X the cost to drive an average ICE compared to an average EV at the top end of your allowable SuC charge, and it doesn't include things like oil, oil filters, wear and tear on the ICE, etc. Just a fuel to fuel comparison.
So, how is being 90% cheaper too expensive?
You make some fair points, here's how I arrived at my conclusion... which, upon rereading, I see why it was not clear at all, so I apologize:
I based this off of my experience, which is more like 400ish W/M in the summer and closer to 500ish in the winter - my car is usually fully loaded with people and cargo when I'm on a road trip, so there's substantially more weight than average.
So we are looking more like $0.02/mi. My previous ICE car(s) were always in the high 40's for fuel mileage (52 MPG record), so I base it off of that. So we are looking at around $0.05/mi for ICE. The ICE is cheaper to purchase and maintenance is about the same, if not cheaper over the life of the car (especially since I can work on the ICE myself - not so much with the Tesla, but even if I couldn't, a properly maintained ICE doesn't cost all that much to operate if you discount the use of fuel - most of the other consumables apply to both vehicles, with a few notable exceptions, but they don't need to be replaced that often - except oil, which comes to $40ish ever 10k - 20k miles, depending on driving habits - all other liquid consumables are replaced once or twice during the life of the vehicle, at most).
For my last ICE, I spent about $15k in maintenance over a 250,000mi service life (car is still going strong, I just sold it at that point) - that includes two new transmissions - a Tesla would run more than $15k over 250,000 miles if you follow their service schedule, not including replacing any major components.
In the end, the Tesla is as expensive if not more expensive to maintain than an ICE, for me personally. So maintenence is a wash cost wise. That leaves fuel - we have a $0.03 gap between the two vehicles. If Tesla charges $0.04 or more, it is so close to the cost of an ICE that the inconvenience of having to find charging locations, stop every 120 miles and charge, or so, makes it an unappealing option on a road trip. In my ICE, I can drive 10 hours straight or about 650 miles - not stopping once.
This brings me to the point of Elons statement about a "comparable" car - if you want to say the ICE is not comparable to the Tesla, I would agree - but in the end, I don't find the Tesla significantly more comfortable to drive than the ICE, and I don't like stopping every 120 miles to charge, especially stopping every 120 miles for 15+ minutes, so on balance, traveling in the Tesla is less enjoyable than traveling in a "lesser" ICE. But since it's free, it makes it more appealing. Anything more than about $0.02/mi and it becomes an unappealing alternative for road trips.