After test driving an S for a day and a night, all these forum complaints became moot. Both my wife and I fell in love with the car, so we ordered the S. I've spoken to a number of Tesla owners over the years and every one of them, with no exceptions, raved about the car. Consumer Reports did a test on infotainment systems and the Tesla got the highest overall rating.
I always look at USNews for their thorough car reviews. The Tesla S was rated best in the large luxury car market...oh wait, you read the forum here and some will tell you it's not 'really' a luxury car. Uh huh.
I'm not saying the car is perfect, but these forums, any forums, contain a large number of people who complain about any product that's under discussion. The larger number of satisfied users are nowhere to be found, they're simply enjoying what they bought.
https://cars.usnews.com/cars-trucks/rankings/luxury-large-cars