Congrats, and thank you for serving (truly!!).
This says more about you, though. There are plenty of people who do live above their means and end up without the story above to show for it. Clearly you were not one of those…but this path is not one that is reliably repeatable for most…whereas the math does work out in favor of Corollas, Accords, and Camrys (and similar).
Thank you for your support.
I see what you mean. I came from extreme poverty, growing up. But I don't think it had much of an effect on me, other than I just don't want to live that way and I don't want my children to end up that way either. For me, I made most of my luck. But there were certain circumstances, and certain tools that allowed me to use my assertiveness and forward thinking to get ahead. I think that's the way I see it - speaking of using the Teslas to take advantage of opportunities - that they were
tools, but just like any other tool, it matters
what you do with it. Whereas I succeeded, someone else who doesn't have my type, or any kind of assertive, strong personality, would probably not have had the outcome I did. Maybe they would have gone to those meetings, and interviews, and they had little to say about the car, or gave short answers, so much that even that tool did nothing for their situation. The way I see it, if you don't come out of a meeting exhausted and energized, feeling like you succeeded because of 95% your own effort, then no matter how many tools in your disposal you won't make it far - you need to work on yourself before anything else.
I also had another point to make - I'd rather drive the Tesla, which to me is my "forever car", for 10 years, and make the most of it, and enjoy it, until it "pays for itself" in gas savings and no maintenance (even if I had a loan payment), than to drive a crappy car, that I know I will not keep, just to "save" money. I've never really accomplished anything by just "saving my money". I rather used the little money I had to invest, and to increase it exponentially through an aggressively expansive means. That's how I actually got ahead. That is in fact how I bought my first Tesla. I invested in stocks, and made enough to buy it - whereas most people said that I should "save" the money at the time. I was able to have a 220% ROI after all said and done.
So, for me, being passive, and saving your money doesn't work out. I'm too anxious and impatient with finances to just let them sit. I need it to be working for itself, with compounded increment.
-R.