Just my added knowledge from reading around:
As posted previously the Wizkid wk057 has tinkered with how the traffic flows between supercharger and car. He found this:
"Here's how it works today: The car has a configuration variable ON THE CAR that enables or disables supercharging (all DC charging). When it is enabled on the CAR the car is able to connect to superchargers and the car does send its VIN to the supercharger. As of today, the supercharger doesn't care what the VIN is. I've sent it all 6's, all 0's, a Roadster VIN, a VIN from a 1983 Yugo... it doesn't care. If it's enabled on the CAR the superchargers will charge the car today.
So today, when Tesla blocks a car from supercharging they connect to the CAR via their VPN link, modify the CAR'S options configuration to remove the DC charging option, without the owner's permission (which I'm pretty sure is illegal, but who knows).
That's not say they wont change this eventually. But as of right now, that's how it works. Eventually the supercharger could reject based on VIN or something else, but today it doesn't care. That's how it SHOULD work, but it is not how it actually works.
For the record, I've turned supercharging back on (undoing Tesla's illegal configuration change) for a fully repaired salvage and it works fine. If they want to block it on the supercharger side, by all means."
Also judging by this youtube video, maybe they do have remote connections to the SCs. This could also be done by reporting through the car it's status, location, and if it's charging, but I don't think it could tell which stall it's in.....interesting stuff indeed.
Given that the patents are open for all now, I would think Tesla would be OK partnering with other automakers and start a fee structure for use. Maybe not though to avoid lines at the already busy SCs. All thoughts at this point, but I can see it happening.