Hi there. New member here, and just read this thread since it was stickied as a helpful one.
All I'd like to add is that I've been friends with a lot of "gear-heads" over the years, especially as a sports car and a Jeep off-road enthusiast. To be honest, most of them I've talked to in recent years are coming around to having a lot of respect for electric cars like the Tesla. If they personally prefer not to own one, they'll usually admit it has more to do with a preference of holding on to the past. (If you dedicated many years of your life to tuning gasoline powered engines and rebuilding them, etc. -- you don't want to just throw all of that talent away and start over from scratch.)
The one argument they make that's still really valid, though? Electric cars aren't really suitable for road courses or race tracks. (Look at any of the attempts to race a Model S on a track. Starts out GREAT until about 3 or 4 turns into the course, when the battery overheats and you get major power loss.) They dominate at the drag strip, on the other hand.
It really comes down to appreciate every vehicle for its strength and recognizing it has weaknesses too. There's still no one vehicle that's best for all purposes. (There are things I can do in a Jeep that few other vehicles on the road today are capable of. So far, I don't think a Tesla is certified to do water crossings with up to 22 inches of water like a Wrangler is, for example!)