You are correct (but wrong amount)...can look at the "tire size" subsection discussion with much info on this topic.
In brief, for the Tesla AWD M3s, you will want to stay less than 0.5" diameter tires front and rear, and use 26.0" to 27.0" tire sizes (about 2% variance). People have described error codes thrown with higher variance in AWD.
To make simpler, use can consider using a 20mm difference in width sizes for staggered tires (eg, 235 & 255). Staggered wheels with same size tires mentioned above have pros and cons...what was not mentioned was more stretched look of same size tire on rear wheel of larger width. Same size wheels with staggered tires would be opposite....choose your desired look
If doing aggressive corner driving (autocross, tracking, etc), then there is a benefit for wider tires on appropriate size wheels. If not, you would save on efficiency and potentially acceleration (due to decreased weight and tire-road resistance compared to wider tires).
Currently running on 275/30/20 and 295/30/20 on 9.5in and 10.5in wide wheels respectively...to each their own.
Hope that helps...