As I read this...
I thought this and then read what you wrote and realized that, once again, you were way ahead of me.That said, the dynamics of the system still will result in a 500 lb tongue weight bouncing down and inducing higher torques than the 562.5 lb-ft number.
It certainly is a concern. I hope that Tesla appreciates your input and takes it seriously.I believe this can explain why I approached a form of failure on my hitch adapter