It is your money, but if it was my money I would want to know the details. What assumptions are being made in terms of the load calculations? I agree with @nwdriver about obvious ways to reduce power in terms of the load calculations that the builder is assuming.
He may be assuming that you are going to charge two cars at the highest speed on the hottest day of the year when your pool pump is running and your wife is cooking in both ovens while using the electric clothes dryer and every bathroom has someone blow drying their hair. Oh, and you have 100 Watt incandescent bulbs in every light fixture and all the lights are on and you are charging your golf cart.
Or it could be a combination of the busbar rating because you mentioned you wanted the inverters upgraded.
He may be assuming that you are going to charge two cars at the highest speed on the hottest day of the year when your pool pump is running and your wife is cooking in both ovens while using the electric clothes dryer and every bathroom has someone blow drying their hair. Oh, and you have 100 Watt incandescent bulbs in every light fixture and all the lights are on and you are charging your golf cart.
Or it could be a combination of the busbar rating because you mentioned you wanted the inverters upgraded.