I have tried several more times to do the reset and no luck. Tried it with the charger cable connected and disconnected, sitting in the drivers sear during the 5 minute power off and leaving the car during that time.
I exchanged several messages with Tesla service and concluded with having them cancel my appointment. They know of the issue but there is no current fix for it. It will be corrected in a future software update is what I was told.
Now this seems odd with some of the reports people are making here but there are so many variables that it could behave differently on different cars depending on a lot of different factors. It is clear that the power off reset thing worked for some people. But that may not be a permanent fix, I mean it could come back.