I would agree this is another area where they failed to deliver what was promised.Tesla also told me I could store music on the on-board hard drive. Can't do that either. How is this different?
As for your question on the difference, generally...
There isn't one. People are still unhappy about this, just less vocally. Also, there isn't an "A" and "B" car situation regarding the media storage so that component of the discussion isn't present (yet?).
As for your question on the difference, personally...
Music storage wasn't a critical aspect of either the vehicle behavior or what I wanted out of it. XM radio is another thing on my "barely care" list.
The performance of the vehicle (motor/battery), range (battery), and recharge rate (battery/chargers/etc.) are primary aspects of the vehicle.
Furthermore, I can workaround the storage problem with USB keys and so forth. I can't just insert something in my frunk that will give me 120 or 135kW supercharging. It's a pretty significant difference.
Since someone mentioned it, I'll just add...
Vanity mirrors, sunshade, etc. These are slightly different as these were "promised" verbally at various venues and via email. They were never documented as features on the web site, part of the ordering process web pages, etc. As such, I always considered them vaporware until proven otherwise. But features that were listed on the product pages at the time the vehicle was ordered and were never officially cancelled are, IMO, at best "legally problematic" for Tesla if they continue with this pattern.
Examples that were published but vanished include more USB ports, "car as wifi hotspot" feature. Sadly, Audi (and others) are bringing this to market before Tesla. If I were Audi (and others), I'd rub that in Tesla's face a bit in their advertising (if they aren't already).