Update for the benefits of others in the future.. check your NEMA outlet after installation by electrician!
It appears the red wire had it's jacket inserted into the plug and it had started to melt, which explains the hot feeling on the pipe just above the outlet, and the outlet itself! It became obvious when charging at 40amps.
Thanks to
@eprosenx and others who suggested I do testing during day time and was able to catch that hazard.
The solar electrician when I showed him said I got lucky!
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I decided to kill the outlet and do direct connect instead of pigtail (which I should've done before, but now I felt more confident!).
Bought EMT conduit, cut pieces and made a path from where the tubing ended to the Wall Connector, and painted it white.
The solar electrician helped me pull the new 6 AWG wires and I ran a new 10 AWG green wire, and removed the neutral white.
He also installed the 60 amps breaker (I bought the wrong type apparently, thank god I didn't install the breaker myself!).
The 24 feet of cabling wasn't fitting well with the conduit, so I re-installed my cable organizer below.
Please enjoy my personal journey from mobile connector, pigtail wall connector, to direct connect!
Learned a lot in the process
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