I stayed at the Sedona Rouge a couple of weeks ago. The 14-50 there worked wonderfully. The staff is very pleasant, you get free happy hour appetizers, and a way better than average breakfast with the room.
The only ever so slight annoyance that I had was that my 40A charge rate was reduced to 30A sometime in the evening. Before I went to bed, I went out to the car, unplugged the car and the UMC, closed the charge port, and started over. After that, it continued charging at 40A. With the overnight charge, I could have done fine with 30A, but I decided to see if it would happen again. My theory is that some other electrical activity at the hotel or in the neighborhood triggered the current reduction.
It is a little pricey for some, but except for that, I would recommend the Sedona Rouge without qualification. Although I did not use it, the Spa at the hotel might be a great birthday present for your wife. As always call ahead to verify the status of the charge location.
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