Just why in the hell would you ever complain about this?
I didnt get the impression that this OP was complaining... just asking. We see a LOT of complaint posts here about somewhat nonsensical stuff, but this seemed more like just a question to me as in "am I in the clear now?"
To be fair, for a non tesla vehicle, features that are on the car when you buy it are there, period... no one sneaks into your garage to remove them later, even if you "didnt pay for them".... but that is the price for this connected world, and one that people "sign up for" when buying a tesla.
The connectivity is a two way street, and one needs to be ok with that to buy the vehicle (not directed at you bill, just a general statement).