I have a "-F" model version gen 3 wall connector and it started giving me the 3 red lights. I emailed Tesla support and they pushed a firmware update to it and told me to reboot the connector and try again. After trying all that I was still getting 3 red lights so I called them. While I was on the phone the technician went through some debugging processes and confirmed that my connector was overheating that that they would replace it. I should get the new connector early next week; I have to replace the front panel and send it back to them.
The debugging process was kinda neat. The technician could tell how hot the wall connector (104°C) and the handle (42°C) were getting. The determined that this was too high so they replaced it. Apparently, they could access the charging history from the connector as well. Kinda creepy really, if you think about it.