totally agree, from all the private dealers I've spoken with that have Model Xs in inventory, just none of them can give you that good feeling about the car.
Really thought I had a deal on a car through Texas Auto Direct but again, they couldn't give me details as to why they had 5 cars with less than 5k on them that were previously titled to an individual and then sold/traded. I did my research through tesla and found that the VIN numbers for the cars they had were pretty all much flagged as being in accidents or were buybacks from Tesla who then wholesaled them.
Plan is to sit tight and wait for either a CPO or ideally something from a current forum member! I've been monitoring the for sale forum and everywhere else I can think, will get my X in good time. Thank you all!