(not moderation content, not representing TMC or anyone but jjrandorin the regular poster, not jjrandorin the moderator)
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Im not a mod for this subforum, but thats not how it works. When I saw this thread here in this subforum I was virtually 100% sure it would "end up" where it has, because any thread with traction on a subject like this (Scam / Accident) eventually ends up in this exact same place, with people telling the OP what they should or should not have done (or in the case of accidents, how they "definitely had enough time to do X because if you check the video at 2:05 you can see clearly.......).
The only thing that looked somewhat suspect is the OPs repeated hints about a "gofundme" page. The repeated hints about that caused me to "raise my eyebrows" just like it did some others in the thread. In fact, I would say that those repeated hints are what turned this thread toward where it ended up going, although it was always going to sort of go that way anyway (because thats how the internet works in 2021).
Every mention of this "gofundme" page makes the story sound less believable, so the OP should stop talking about gofundme here at all. That isnt relevant, and continuing to talk about it only makes everything else look false (personal opinion).
There are some posts in this thread that are close to being content that should be moved by moderators to the snippiness quarantine, but they are "riding the line" so to speak. If a mod closes this thread it would be closed, period, no one but a mod could post in it, including the OP. That may not be that bad an idea, except that everyone following along simply wants to know the outcome because "they want to know", not because it would mean anything to anyone but the OP.