GT,
You would have to trigger the HVJB to close the Fast Charge contactors...Applying a 12v power source to the contactors would do this. You would have to find the wires going into the HVJB and connect a switch with a 12 power source. This would bypass all the software requirements. Then you could pull 350/400 volts from the plug. Not really a viable thing to do and not the safest thing either
I would like to see Tesla make a buddy charge cable to tie two cars together but you would have to regulate how much current is flowing between the two battery packs.