Most people find it far more convenient to plug in every night so they never forget, AND it's better for the battery to boot, win-win.
No, you completely misunderstand. charging from 50-60% daily is ALWAYS better for the car than charging from 20-90% weekly (or 40-70 every 3 days.)
It doesn't matter if you claim it's because the maximum charge level is lower, or because the total swing is less, either way it's better. So based on your own argument that the lower the charge state the better, it would be best to charge nightly (or more if possible) even if you think that I, and every battery scientist, and Tesla themselves, are wrong about it being better, your own argument agrees!