Thank you everyone---
John in Audubon PA, your analogies are spot on. And let me tell you the things I love about this car. I love the fact that I have not been in a gas station in 3 months. I love just plugging it in and forgetting about it (the car does all the work). I love the way it stays in a lane like it's riding on rails when the autopilot is engaged. I love the software updates---it really is like getting a new car every now and then (not unlike getting a new operating system with a different interface on your computer).
I love its insane acceleration (NOTE TO EVERYONE---I DON"T DO THIS VERY OFTEN AND NO, THAT'S NOT MY MILEAGE PROBLEM)
I don't like the audio system. I think it's absurd and WAY inferior to Apple CarPlay. But that's just me. Lots of people on these forums have made clear they--ahem--disagree.
I think it's a crazy good looking car. And every single person I have taken for a ride or shown it to has said, "Man, I love this car!"
And so do I.
Now---to JJ in San Diego. First of all, you live in paradise and I'm jealous. Maybe my favorite city in America. Your note gave me the greatest comfort I can describe. Of all the replies I have received anywhere, this was so helpful:
"If you want a range, if you drive 65 MPH and take a trip where you don't stop, you will likely get between 200-230 miles. Extrapolating it out from other distances is an exercise in frustration, as evidenced by your situation."
Unbelievably helpful! I do think I've got some electricity leaking out somewhere---but I do get much better mileage on longer drives---so that is encouraging. And by the way, I love the 19" wheels, so I'm probably not going to make that change. I'm willing to give up a little bit in that regard.
I truly appreciate your kind words, and your efforts to educate me. As is obvious, I need all the help I can get.
Many thanks,
phil