I actually agree with both of you. TBH the problem would go away if they just wouldn't release stupid updates. Like taking my buttons off my bottom row, and disabling radar, and messing with my voice commands, and breaking my music player.
I realize it's subjective to say what's a stupid update and what isn't. I also realize that bugs happen. But in my opinion Tesla just isn't thoughtful and methodical enough with what they release. I don't want change for change's sake in my car, and I don't want stuff to get worse than it was before. Like, ever. So, just do that.