Wow. What a thread. I've read every single post, because I can actually understand what the OP is saying. I'm doing the same calculation right now, and to be free of the fear I've made a huge mistake - absolutely that's worth 10-15% of the car's value. Go look up Sunk Cost Fallacy. If for him, his disappointment had ruined his experience to the point where it wasn't worth it, then it was a GREAT decision to sell. Happiness has no price tag, and for him, NOT having the car brings more happiness than HAVING the car.
There are real, systemic problems. In manufacturing. In delivery. In the SCs. In QC.
I don't want to thread-jack, so all I'll say is I also had a crappy experience. My OA ignored and then lied to me. There was JUNK in the car from a test driver when I took delivery (inventory vehicle). Multiple SC trips. No callbacks. Etc.
I can totally understand the OP's position. All I want at this point is to love my car. Given that every few weeks I have to wonder "Ok, what the hell happened now?", it's hard to do that.
Experiences like ours may be in the minority, but there is a PHENOMENAL amount of Kool Aid drinking going on as well. The smart ones are putting down the cup, enjoying their car, but also seeing "Huh. Yeah, I guess I could see there are problems."
I see it like this. I could go spend, like $6K on a great gaming computer. Or I could go buy the $18K computer made by this one company that has literally a 3D holographic display. Holy hell. It's the future! Then I get it, and it crashes. And the keys stick. And, and, and. So that's what a Tesla is. It's the only game in town right now, and if the OP decided it wasn't for him...whatever. Enjoy your holographic car, with his and my congratulations. I don't understand why people are getting defensive. He didn't attack anyone or even disparage the company. He repeatedly praised it and wished them well.
So why are we here? Because experiences like ours are FRUSTRATING, and we need to vent, and hear that other people have them too, and we're not nuts.
So thank you, Stan. Good on ya. You've done a great job sharing your info, being pretty stand-up throughout this thread, and it's helped me to realize these are real problems, and getting out is a legit way to go. I'm also hearing from many people on the post, you gotta be pretty darned firm with these guys to make them fix what they say they're going to fix, and make sure they make it right. I'm super glad you're happy with your decision.