I personally think there is a very reasonable middle here as far as Level 2. You rolled your eyes at the idea of how terrible this proposed 1 hour stop is, but to prove your point, you compared it to your experience of having to sit for multiple hours waiting on L2 charging. I look at those as different situations--one reasonable and one not.
On trips, there will be a few places where I need to take about 20-30 minutes for a meal stop anyway. And that is regardless of whether it's a gas or electric car or whatever. So I consider that a reasonable minor adjustment to...extend that a bit for up to around an hour. I can take my time a little bit. Maybe it's an extra 5 minutes farther walk to a little bit nicer place I want to eat, or I'll have another refill while playing some games on my phone, etc. So making the meal break up to an hour, I think is not a big ask as a rare-ish thing to fill in a gap between Superchargers.
But yeah, the multi-hour stops are a no go. The route between Boise and Bend, OR would have required about 3.5 hours of 40A level 2 to bridge that gap, and that's something I wouldn't stand for, so I didn't do it, and I took our gas car a couple of times on that route. There is a CHAdeMO there now, and a permit for a Supercharger, so it's much better.
Yeah, I probably shouldn't have shown the other extreme that was less relevant. My bad.
The stronger point I should have made is a practical one: At least in North America (my context), the grand majority of L2 charging you'd use en-route is 208V 30A. Practically, this means about 5.5kW or about 38km/h of rated range (about 23mph) if not using climate control. This... is not a lot. More realistically, I'd personally be sitting in the car anyways (eating or not)
or have dog mode on, which would drop that to 4.5kW or so in summer (worse in winter). Around where I live, if L2 is the "only" charge option, it's often near a CHAdeMO/CCS station as well, which is why I have the adapter.
For example, I did a route a few days ago that looped me around a different region and back home using only CHAdeMO. Had I used L2 chargers, this 15h day would have been a 27h day,
which is suddenly no longer actually a day. This is the reality of many non-Supercharger routes within reachable distance of my car, and mostly important because of the "no longer a day" thing.
But as you say, for bridging a gap between Superchargers, maybe it's good enough. I find the actual "gaps" are sufficiently large that stopping at an L2 for just an hour would not be enough, and would require multiple hours in reality. I can think of many such cases nearby (nearly all of which can actually be served by CHAdeMO instead in a fraction of the time) or along my travels to Colorado. I even debated one, really wanting to take a specific highway, but would've needed a 3 hour stop at an L2 for an already 15h drive (one the second day of three 15h drives).
Of course, there's an exception in the form of the shining oasis that is 240V 48A chargers, often found at resorts. Should be able to pull about 10.7kW off these which is much better, but their location is a problem as they're
intended for resort guests. And notably, SR+ (the one that would be more likely to need charging to fill a gap!) cannot use the full 48A anyways.
EDIT: I've done the Bend -> Boise route (in the ICE). Along with being a bad time for an EV, there was
no cellular signal for
hours, which might be the even bigger problem for charger discovery. Pre-planning absolutely needed.
To date, for long trips any ICE is faster than any EV on any route.
That's not the EV's strength. At best, you might hope that one day it achieves parity.
This is why PHEV technology is not as silly as many people think. The problem is nobody released a PHEV with 80 miles of AER yet that has a >8 gallon gas tank.
This is why we almost got a PHEV, but the ones we were interested in couldn't even be full-electric to work and back (120km), so it became a bit pointless. Of course, now work requires only 15km/day, because things change and we can't predict life. Oh well.