According to Tesla, the Model S has a 48% front 52% rear weight distribution, it is a reverse pendulum-but not much of one. An F-150 has a heavy engine up front, a large cabin, and then an empty box at the back. I could not find anything on it's weight distribution (because no one cares about that for a truck) but it is definitely front heavy when unloaded. An F-150 will default to under-steer in limit handling situations due to the weight distribution and even in the event of power over-steer (assuming you are actually traveling forward and not trying to do donuts) the large amount of weight up front and the lengthy wheelbase will help fight the effects of over-steer.
The Model S will have a tendency to rotate under rear slip events either under power, braking, or regen due to the ~186lb weight imbalance to the rear. Again, this is actually not a bad weight distro for a performance car, but it still is off the mark by 186lbs
A M3 will have an even shorter wheelbase than either Teslas thus far, or an F-150 for that matter. So the weight distribution will be even more important for vehicle dynamics under regen. I drive a manual for about 30k miles a year and put in about 5 races in a small formula car every year, I know about downshifting, engine braking, and most importantly, not upsetting car balance in the middle of a turn...because I learned the hard way into a few gravel traps. Coasting is taken for granted by most all drivers on the road and often in cornering situations it is the safest power option once you have already turned in - having to hunt for the point on one pedal knowing that if you just let go of it you will go into regen is neither intuitive for the average street driver not efficient in any performance situation.
I do not doubt that some on here have mastered this process on their Model S; however, Tesla is stepping up to a mass market car and in doing so needs to create the lowest bar for entry into the EV market, they have done it on price and they should also do it IRT control.
Lastly I agree with, what appears to be the preponderance of sentiment on this thread outside the hardliners, that the amount of regen should be fully configurable on both pedals. As it is a matter of software I see no reason why this should not be implemented.