Update to my above comment. 24hrs later and both cars still say connected. I have 2.4G set to Channel 1 (it effectively uses channel 3 but still advertises 1) and channel width to 40MHz. It was my best guess at default high speed settings for most routers, therefore highest chance of Tesla having tested it. Or maybe it works because there are less AP's using 40MHz channels than 20MHz channels, therefore less networks to confuse Tesla wifi moodule? How knows. Anyways, sharing here because it seems to work (so far, fingers crossed).
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PS> While looking into this, I have to say it's scary how many people have open WiFi, not necessarily their main internet access, but TV displays, dashcams, and other IoT (found one internet connected washer with its own WiFi AP), car hotspots or even just guest versions of their home networks. I live a neighborhood of single family, detached homes - imagine what it must be like in an apartment complex. IoT is going to be the next security plague (not only because people leave it open or with default passwords, but also because unless those devices are regularly patched, they can be hacked with publicly available exploits). But I digress....