Unless you're doing the work yourself, or have already worked it out with your electrician, save your money. Many (most?) electricians don't like to use customer-supplied parts.
You still need to do a load calc to know that there's enough headroom in your service to support a 100A circuit.
Installing a HPWC on a 100A circuit is going to be way more expensive than a 60A circuit (the max the model 3 needs). Wire is more expensive, you need a disconnect switch in site of the HPWC, and labor will be higher (it's a PITA to work with that heavy wire). Unless you know you're getting another Tesla and want to share the circuit between two HPWC's, you're probably wasting your money.
FWIW, now that I know a lot more I probably would have installed my HPWC differently. I used EMT with #6 AWG and a 60a breaker. It was only about 10' of wire. To do it over again, I would have probably pulled #4 wire (and a #8 ground) and put it on a 80a breaker. My Model 3 could not have made use of it, but visiting Model S/X or other future vehicles could have. Going all the way to a 100a breaker with #3 AWG wire would be the ultimate solution, but that would require going to 1" EMT (where I ran 3/4ths).
So even if paying an electrician, the only delta cost would be the 80a breaker vs. the 60a one, plus the higher ampacity wire. The conduit and the rest of the labor would have been the same (maybe dealing with the thicker wire might have been a bit of a pain).
In my case, I have only one 240v load (the AC). Everything else is gas, so no load calc issues.
FWIW, I see no problems with installing a higher ampacity wire and corresponding breaker but then setting the dial on the HPWC down lower if you need to fit under a load calc threshold. Obviously this is somewhat of a waste of money, but if you thought you might switch a water heater / furnace / range / dryer to gas later or otherwise upgrade your service it might make sense in some edge cases.
Also, I have not looked into this, but I know at least in commercial you can do a load study of *actual* historic load and use it to justify deviating from the standard load calculations. I have a Sense Monitor and I have a year of history that says I never remotely touch the capacity of my service.
P.S. I am not 100% sure on the disconnect switch thing. If it is *over* 60a ampacity then you need a locking disconnect in a "readily accessible" location, but I don't think many (most?) AHJ's consider that to need to be visible. Generally I think a metal clip in the breaker panel to allow it to be locked off is sufficient.