If the wiper control was on a physical stalk, I'd revise my opinion to be simply "annoying". Today, it's press a button to bring up a menu of wiper speeds, take your eyes off the road to hit an option, and hope it gives you the speed you want. There is no world where that's ok. esp. at highway speeds. Get it wrong, and you risk not seeing.
I'm sticking with dangerous.
Just to set things straight for people who don't yet own a Model 3, the wiper control IS on a physical stalk, and that button press does more than just bring up the wiper menu - it actually wipes the windshield. Pushing to the 2nd detent triggers wiper fluid and wipes.
so you've never taken your eyes off the road at highway speeds to check your blind spot or look into the rear mirror, both of which are a longer glance away than your center screen? Would you consider that dangerous? How about changing a radio preset or toggling the A/C? Or putting in a CD or tape into the slot? Or use the cigarette lighter to light a smoke? How did we manage all this eyes-off-the-road activity in the past without crashing all over the place?
The manual button on the stalk is exactly for those situations where you're in a tricky situation and you MUST have your eyes on the road. If there's no tricky situation to navigate, I challenge anyone to tell me they can't afford to ever take their eyes off the road. You've done this millions of times in regular ICE cars without realizing it.
For me, dangerous wipers are ones that do a poor job clearing the obstruction. And in this thread, I see 2 distinct complaints with merit:
1) Auto-wipe setting is erratic and not reliable
2) The performance of the blades is subpar
I've dealt with #1 via adaptation (reliance on manual button and interval setting). It's not ideal, but it's out of mind for me. #2 is likely fixable like it is for S/X with a higher-end Bosch (Icon) blade. I haven't tried the replacement on the 3, but I can attest that the Bosch Icons perform SO much better than the stock Bosch on Model S. The current stock 3 blades can't handle even the smallest amount of snow without streaking and clumping. However the stock 3 blades work just fine clearing rain, from a blade-to-glass perspective.