I owned Audi A4s from 2000 till 2012. Never had to "reboot" the car.
I owned F30 BMWs from 2012 till 2018, never had to "reboot" the car.
Maybe I was just lucky, or, maybe Tesla just needs to do a better job.
Full disclosure, I was parking my car a last Friday and it threw a bunch of alarms saying emergency braking was disabled, contact service, etc. I was walked through "restarting the car" by local service center. My wife commented "I've never had to do that with a car before".
We have to resist the desire to cut Tesla slack on this stuff, or people will come to accept it.
Completely agree with not cutting Tesla slack.
Just pointing out BMWs are troublesome cars. We lease new cars every 3 years. One for my wife, one for me. For 20+ years those were BMWs. In the last decade have several E90s (2 turbo failure, one 200 miles from home), an F30 (that is the battery failure car), and X3 (2016 F25) lockout issues with memory settings dumps). They all rattled and squeaked. I have bottles of Gummi Plege in my garage. On Bimmerfest or another forum I posted a picture of me with my head down on the passenger seat floor under the glove box while my wife is driving, as I try to locate a rattle. Turns out they forgot to tighten the screws that connect the glove box door and those that attached the inside air blender door.
Frankly I think you where lucky. Perhaps your cars were all built in Germany. We had turbo failures with the German built units, but fewer electronic issues. Those seem to occur with cars built in South Africa and South Carolina.
We are buying the F25 for a family member when the lease completes in a month. But, I will definitely buy a multi-year service contact since each of the turbo failures ran over $6,000 to repair and a 4 year service contract will run $3,500 or so.
Because of these issues we went with a Tesla X this lease cycle. We have been stranded once
, so they are matching our BMW experience. But even with that I like the X much better than the X3.
Maybe I should go back to my 90s 6 series. Slow, big, sucked gas, but simple and reliable.