Did you figure this out? I’ve been searching everywhere for a DYI.
Nope, still searching, seems I haven't found the correct person yet. The 12V lighter plug is now directly under the phone chargers.....I had a Tesla service guy at my house last week for Homelink, discussed this with him. He said the phone charger rack is replaceable, ie it pops off some how. He didn't want to do it while there, and we looked more closely and it appears held down by some dash trim. I didn't want to force it out, so hoping someone will post a YouTube video on how to remove this. If we can remove it, then it the wires underneath should be totally exposed and I could tap directly into the wire for the lighter plug.
Also, the service tech told me the wire runs on both sides of the car down the door trim, haven't changed. That's where I found the 12V wire tap on my 2018 model 3.....but honestly it wasn't easy to find, and I'd rather not start pulling the trim off, pawing through wire runs, until I see that someone else did it and identified the correct wire.
Regarding 16V vs 12V.....the lighter is 12V....if I can find that feed, I'm good.
Last option....I'm going in for a service call Thursday, after i got my car I noticed a slight bulging of the rear top glass roof at the middle seam with the front glass.....hard to describe, but I want them to check it out such that I have a record of it. It's the only thing I've found that needs checking on this car, it's just beautiful. Gigantic improvement over my 2018 for sure. Anyhow, I'm hoping I'll have a tech there to my own for a few minutes and will ask him the same thing about removing the phone charger base, how to do it.