That really helped. I looked at the colors of the wires and thought perhaps you had swapped the slots, both my connectors (VIN almost 9000) were:
1: Black
2: Purple left; Yellow right
3: Red
5: White
I used these taps, also red for 18-22 gauge wire. The nice thing was that if I had to swap them I could just unplug them.
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The downside was that on the 18 gauge ground wire they worked correctly, but not on any of the 22 gauge wires for the lights. I ended up having to shave the insulation off the wires to get good contact. Ended up taking the whole afternoon shopping and shaving.
I spent about the same, $12 for the trailer wire that comes with easy pull loop and indicator lights to confirm it's working at the trunk. Another $2 for these connectors, and I left my crimp tool at the cabin so I spent $7 on another one. Now I can tow a trailer to the dump in my first $65000 car, hot diggity.
-Randy