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There's an unofficial Tesla API that can do what you want. In fact, it can do anything your phone app can. You just have to be able to code. I wrote something to remind me to charge my car.
It took a week to be delivered to the service center after I ordered it. I only found out because I e-mailed them since they never sent a shipping confirmation e-mail. Then it took a couple of weeks for the service center appointment.