Hi everyone!
Sorry for the late reply! Just got my car back from the shop. They had issues getting hold of a parts!
So, apparently this is a common issue and mostly related to US factory build cars. In the charging port somewhere There is a plastic cap with a connection and due to weather conditions the plastic cap might expand and shrink causing the bad connection. So when doing 16A it increases the heat and causes the problem to appear much quicker. My car just had its first charge from 58%>87% at 16a 3 phase with no problems nor alerts! Crossing fingers that this won't happen again!
However, this is still a bit weird as I could charge elsewhere with no issue yet had problem at home. So I still firmly believe that the theory above mentioned by Mongo is correct and I was actually having two problems. One with my plastic cap causing my car to give error message and other being the communication between just my car and my WC.