Had an experience with the 12v batt biting it too. The one thing the manual doesn't tell you when you're stranded is the dying battery sending low voltage to controllers may put them in an unstable state. To 'jump' the car from another 12v battery, make sure you FIRST disconnect from the bad battery, then only connect jump pack or known good battery from another car with clean 12v. This will 'reboot' things, close hv contactor, and bring dc-dc converter online. You can then disconnect the 12v source and drive around with no 12v battery as long as you want. Hv contactor will not open until hv battery runs all the way down or good 12v is connected from a new battery.