Whole house tripping can be attributed to cumulative earth leakage and/or over sensitive RCD. So it may be caused by other loads in a house rather than dodgy wiring. Some powered devices leak a small amount of current to earth. On their own, its not an issue, but when all combined, the cumulative effect may exceed the RCD trip limit, typically 30mA but, may be less if the RCD is over sensitive. The Tesla UMC seems to introduce around 3mA which is within spec, but if you are already close to limit, it can tip things over the limit.
We suffered this and was initially very confusing. We tried different permutations of circuits and a different UMC and even car. When we turned off some circuits we could charge, but whole house on, bang.
In the end I got my multimeter out which thankfully seemed to be pretty good at reading the leakage. IIRC our house was just over 20mA, so theoretically another 3 should not have triggered the RCD. But it seemed that when charge first initiated, the leakage would briefly spike, tripping the RCD - this could be proven by starting charge with one house circuit off, then successfully reintroducing the circuit.
In the end, I called in my friendly electrician to re purpose a circuit in another consumer unit. Problem solved, but we do have to use that specific 16A circuit to charge the car. Another plan to fix the problem was to swap a few circuits around in the main consumer unit and put the whole garage on its own dedicated RCBO, but on opening up the consumer unit, there was no room to fit the taller RCBO. We didn't swap the RCD over as there was no guarantee it was going to behave any different and risk it may have caused problems, and by that time, we had a working solution. Cost, 1-1/2 hours labour plus MCB, so under £100.