@MP3Mike
Well your consumption is fairly high which is the first thing to fix before going DC. Does that electricity include your climate control heating and cooling, and water heating? Passive homes are the go. Note I'm still talking about an end to end solution not a modification of legacy devices.
Cooktop: DC induction cooktop with thermally insulated cookware will bring this down to a few 100Wh
Oven: Insulated oven with triple glass door - or slow cooker - or even better low temp vaccuum cooker again in 100s Wh range
Dishwasher: Only needs small water pump and hot water from household thermal store
Toaster (and grill): yeah ok but only occasional use?
You need a fridge too: easy to do DC at under 100W.
Most of these are kitchen devices btw...
Water Heater: must be a heat pump with thermal store so it can "charge" directly during the day or use a ice heater in cold winters - multi season capable
Furnace: same as above with 12V DC circulation pump for hydronic circuit
A/C: same system as the above two but in reverse heat pump mode. Can be direct drive without electrical store except for the DC circulation pump, energy is stored in thermal boiler using water only. Cold can be stored for cooling, or use the ice you made for heating in winter to cool in summer. (This is being done with off the shelf systems btw)
Computer, TV, DVR (really?) and LED lights are all DC already and low power use capable devices that can easily run off batteries without being inconvenient. Ideally using POE or USB PD for connectivity as well.
It's actually surprising what you don't need to have 240/110V for when you look at it.