Ha. I NEVER make unsubstantiated claims. Let's just say my Tesla contact is someone that "sees Elon" daily. Not some production line worker.
Repeated supercharging is degrading enough to batteries that in the worst-affected cars, Tesla does put speed limitation on place once you pass a certain number of faster charging cycles (either on Tesla superchargers, or on 3rd party cargers using a Chademo adapter):
Tesla explains why it limits Supercharging speed after high numbers of DC charges - Electrek
Note in that article, there is a direct quote from Tesla Service Center:
"According to Tesla engineers, once vehicle has been DC fast charged over a specified amount, the battery management system restricts DC charging to prevent degradation of the battery pack."
Just go talk to pretty much any owner of an 85 or 90 kwh pack Model S, and they will tell you that software updates in the past year have cut their charging rates substantially, and the reason that finally came out is that it is to protect the battery packs.
It NOT JUST the ABSOLUTE PERCENT on the battery (i.e. charging to 100% or driving to 0% is bad for the pack), but it is the RATE at which you get to those numbers (i.e. FASTER charging causes more degradation, and in the extremes more launches in the high-end cars like the P100D cause faster degradation). Heck, on the P100D and P3D there are warnings in the controls that tell you the more you use Launch Mode and Track Mode, respectively, the faster you can expect degradation of both the battery and the motors.
Slower charging is better, period. These are governed by the laws of physics (heat dissipation primarily), not someones "feelings".