It generally doesnt, though. Once people get solar and start driving EVs they dont tend to go back. Im not saying you will have Teslas for the rest of your driving days, but once you get solar and an EV you will likely have another EV of some type or other. The grandparents / granny flat I get, but if you stay in that house, you will likely either rent it out, or the kids will one day move back into that granny flat to save for a house.
You will start looking at electric dryers, induction rangetops, heat pump hybrid heating, etc (lol)....
I get the "I dont want wholesale pricing" at the end of the year thing, but electricity rates are going up, they are not coming back down (at least not in CA).
Shrug.. (note that I am also the tesla energy subforum moderator so my opinion is likely biased, by my own experiences and what I have seen happen).
Anyway, I dont have an answer on the 4000kWh / Year thing cause math isnt my strong point, although someone else here will likely know what that calculation is.