Hi and welcome to the forum
@evJOULE
You appear to be stating one perceived issue and then asking for opinion on another. I’ll try both, though my wife is the primary driver of our 3. TL;DR: don’t worry about this, it’s a great car.
Longer version. I see things you appear to be asking: stability of UI/software and security.
1) the overall stability of the UI, and all other software, in the 3 is great. I find the navigation better than my S, the refresh rate on the screen faster, and UI interactions more fluid. There are occasional glitches that rarely require a reboot. This is reboot takes about 10 seconds and doesn’t affect the driving of the car (except indicator/signal noise is muted during). The first day, a number of months ago required multiple reboots to get a few systems reliably working. I believe the last time we rebooted was about a week ago when the audio went “chipmunk in static” *. This is/was expected as early owners and Tesla has been great at receiving, and acting upon, feedback with most issues resolved
2) The concept of hacking a predominantly software based, connected, car is very appealing to some. I would imagine, as
@Ampere said, that issues will be found and we have previous examples of the seriousness and speed in which Tesla addresses them. Tesla both has significant InfoSec efforts during development, validation (including pen testing, bug bounties, etc) and mechanisms to quickly roll out fixes to the entire fleet quickly that I do not worry about this.
* wife’s term for issue.
Hope this helps