If you've never driven an EV, driving a Model S will help you decide if an EV is for you. But the S and the 3 are very different cars - it's like asking if driving an Audi A8 will help you decide if you'll like the A3 or not. (caveat: I am a mere armchair expert and have never driven a 3 or a Y. I've always had a thing for quick luxo-barges, which is why I bought an S)
Can you go test-drive
this one? Doesn't look too far away. Or
this one, if the seller is amenable. Expand your search radius a bit and I'm sure you'll find one you can test-drive.