I really appreciate this thread. My kitchen ceiling lights are blinking in the mornings after the car finishes charging overnight over the past 1-2 weeks ... 3-4 months after completion of a big remodel. Also, 1-2 of my new kitchen AFCI breakers, on a subpanel installed during that remodel, nuisance trips too sometimes during these mornings too.
I thought a fire was going to eventually start and complained to the remodeler.
During a support chat w Tesla in the middle of a solar installation process (and new electrical panel upgrade), this thread was sent to the team by me. The feedback? The new electrical panel, required part of the solar install, will help the kitchen lights + tripping issue on my 1950s built home.