This is very subjective of course. Google it and you’ll find plenty of discussions on the topic with photos. Including all of the colours with Aero wheels in a single image for comparison. The right hand column in this thread for example:
All 18 Tesla Model 3 color & wheel combos : teslamotors
Personally I think the red goes best with Aeros and that’s what I went with. Next up I’d say white. Then blue.
One thing I would note is that the Aeros look far better “in the flesh” than in photos. I saw a black model 3 with Aeros last week and was impressed. Much better than I was expecting. So to be honest I don’t think you can go far wrong with any choice.