Correct on Ohio. I understand that Tesla is most likely better to buy than lease. Their lease numbers just do not make sense and their car values have been holding strong. Not sure it will stay that way, when market gets more competitive.
But, I have always leased BMW’s or even Mercedes and I always end up ahead leasing my BMW’s every three years. Your points don’t apply when leasign BMW’s, I have gone over the lease/buy on every BMW and it never makes sense to buy them, unless you are planning to keep it 10 years. Plus, when you buy you have to worry about trade in/deprecitation, which on a BMW is very poor. But, that is just me.
My wife likes to just pay cash and keep here cars, so she would be in the buy camp and with you.